Laugh At Yourself

This one is not about smiling. It’s about laughing. Don’t you ever miss another opportunity to laugh. Especially at yourself. The longer your laughing sessions, the shorter your misery ones. Looks like a nice deal, isn’t it?

Every good laugh will kill a potential stupid move you were ready to do. I know this from personal experience. Every time I was relaxed enough to laugh at myself, all my decisions were spot on.

And if we’re talking about how we spend our time, I can always chose to laugh about something I did than to be sad about something I didn’t. That’s quality time, if you ask me.

Laughing is the most genuine expression of pure happiness. Especially when you laugh at yourself. 

What Really Happens When You Laugh At Yourself

Humor is a strange thing. It’s almost impossible to explain. How do you explain to somebody that something is “funny”? How do you decide, in the first place, that something is funny? What makes you laugh? And what is laughing, after all?

Laughing is the joy of detachment. At its core, laughing is the detection of a “crack” in the predictable structure of the universe. It’s a surprising continuation of a certain action.

A man slipping on a banana peel. That’s the fundamental laughing trigger. Why do you laugh when you see that? And by that I dare you to picture Buster Keaton in your mind, slipping on a banana peel. Because you don’t expect it. Because of the contrast. The seriousness on Buster’s face is in total contrast with his lack of balance. He falls down, he interrupts his normal, predictable course of action, yet his face remains the same.

This contrast, this contradiction, this short-circuit in the way the world works, well, that thing creates a subtle detachment. Instead of being frightened by this lack of meaning, by this “crack” in the universe, we choose to enjoy it, somehow. That’s what laughter is, fundamentally: a way to enjoy the continuous disruption of our universe.

And thats why laughter is so healthy: because when we laugh, we don’t cling to stuff. We’re floating away with it. When we laugh, we’re not proving something, we’re just synchronizing our vibes with the “crack”, we’re just there, releasing that tension, that energy that builds up when we see Buster’s face, immutable, sitting on top of his rubber-like body, falling apart.

Laughter is created by these fractures, at every level in our life. Because of our conditioning, we lose our ability to laugh at everything (and, in all honesty, not all the fractures are laughable, some of them need our energy to fix them on the spot). But the intention to laugh, the intention to enjoy the rapture, the change, the “disfunction”, that’s what makes us survive. That’s what gives us more energy and life.

And that’s why is important to laugh at yourself too: when you do that, you acknowledge that you’re changing, you acknowledge a fracture in your life: the seriousness of your face, sitting on top of your rubber-like body, trying to cope with life’s ever changing challenges.

You acknowledge that fact that you’re alive.


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11 Comments Add yours

  1. Well I dont kniw who Buster is. But ya I did imagine somebody🤭 and i just love the way how you explain the physiology and of everything.

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  2. winny Allure says:

    I’ll take your advice and laugh more.Thank you for this awesome article

    Liked by 1 person

    1. GS says:

      Way to go Winny!!!


  3. davidburtoncom says:

    I have a song for you .. listen to Cosmic Joe, by Laaraji on YouTube

    Liked by 1 person

    1. GS says:

      Thank you for the recommendation


    1. GS says:

      Thank you for sharing

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Always a joy and pleasure to read and share your posts with followers, My Dear! Hope you have a great day!! xoxox 😘💕🎁🌹

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  4. Poetry Fluff says:

    I’m a great believer in laughter. My original blog was called The Laughing Housewife, and its aim was to make readers laugh. Likewise, the current poetry blog is lighthearted and meant to make people smile.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. GS says:

      Thank you for sharing!

      Liked by 1 person

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