Welcome fellow souls to « The Human Family Crash Course Series, » a new project collaborated together by empress2inspire.blog and dios-raw.com. Together we will be working on a different topic for each crash course; our eighth topic is focused on «Death». Each topic will have ten posts with posts on Mondays and Thursdays. We hope you enjoy our series and we look forward to knowing how our posts have inspired you!
What happens exactly when we die? Who meets us? How does this whole thing work? These are the questions that different schools of thoughts have tried to answer over the years. Many books have been written on it. Many researchers have tried to answer it through their evidence based papers. Here’s my two cents on what happens. Hope you enjoy this version.
When we get to the other side, when we cross through the proverbial tunnel, who is there to meet us? I think people die, whoever they expect to be there for them, appear before them. Simple. Like if you are a devout Christian and you love God, then Jesus may meet you, as mentioned in the Bible again and again. If you are a BUddhist, Buddhya will be there as you merge in his consciousness and become one with energy. If you want to see a loved one who passed over before you, then that is who will meet you on the other side. They are there to welcome you home and share their energy and excitement that you are there.
Why does this happen? That period of time which we spend with our loved ones, as they are greeting us after death is not of course earth time. So the amount of time it takes to meet them is as long as we want it to take. We get to be with each of our loved ones for as long as we want. Just like soaking it all up. Part of this infinite reasoning is that we have been in our earth form, have forgotten who we truly are, forgotten that we are nothing but pure love. So our family and loved ones help us remember that, we spent this time with them acclimating with life over there and remembering who we are and that instant connection with them helps us settle back in there and remember.
Now a little bit of conflict comes in because we after death are still a little bit tied to our earth bodies. Obviously physically we are not tethered to them but people who we love that we left on the earth are mourning and grieving and we are feeling and hearing their deep emotions, their prayers so that they can hear of that side. We feel more after death because of the infinite nature of things and us remembering that we are full of love. In other words, the people on earth have to stop grieving and let the passed loved ones move on. So for people on earth, once your loved one has moved on, honour the dead and grieve quickly. Remember the good stuff, remember the love and the laughter. You are not doing a dis-service to the dead if you stop grieving.
Once the dead have severed all their ties with their earth family, that is when the life review starts. This is the judgment period. Were your sins lighter than a feather? Who makes that judgment. Well the dead do their own judgement on their own lives. This happens because we are being reminded of who we are and we have settled in our own reality of pure love. So the dead see their whole lives but more than seeing, they feel it. What were their feelings in that given situation which they are reviewing. They pause and reflect on situations where they did not share the love that they should have. So when they are surrounded by true love and then see the choices they made as humans, that’s where the judgment comes in and remorse and they critique themselves. This is where having loved ones around once one passes help. The loved ones will support the dead as they pass through their life journey in reflection . They help in making them happy and telling them that it is okay.
Once the dead are done with their judgement, they then help the others with their loved ones with their grieving process. How many times have you heard of instances where people see spirits or dream of their loved ones who have passed away telling them that they are okay and urging them to move on. Please trust when that happens. That is your loved ones reaching out to you and telling you that everything is going to be alright. They are trying to communicate with you that they are still with you. They are right next to you, the only thing they are missing is their physical body and hence they can’t touch you and let you know that they will always be overseeing you. They are trying to give you input. They will never leave you. They come from a place of pure love and pure intention.
Hope this helps you not only with making peace with death but also with grieving if you still think of a loved one who has passed on.