Ways To Get People To Do What You Want

Your message is important to you, and to get others to believe in it, you can shape it in many ways. But don’t forget that what you say first your “pre-suasive” tactics strongly influences what you say next, and what your audience retains.

Here are few ways to get people to do what you want :

  • Be extremely charming, confident and likeable. People will bend to your will more if they like you. Being well dressed also doesn’t hurt.
  • Mirror the person’s behaviour to make the person feel more at ease and they tryst you more.
  • At the beginning of the conversation, make the person say “yes”, nod or voice agreement to something you say. This will make the person subconsciously more receptive to what you say afterwards.
  • Make the person feel respected and important. Everyone loves to feel special. No matter how powerful you are.
  • Push for a feeling rather than something tangible. Human beings are emotional creatures.
  • Tap into the person’s imagination.
  • Do a big favour for the other person so he or she feels obligated to do something for you. People like to appear fair or be the bigger person, tap into that.
  • Challenge a person to do something as opposed to telling them to do something. Give the other person the illusion of free will.
  • Claim that you have the person’s best interest in mind (nobody hates a do-gooder).

Reference : https://img.wonderhowto.com/img/50/54/63472758780806/0/9-ways-get-people-do-what-you-want.w1456.jpg

8 Comments Add yours

    1. GS says:

      Glad you agree Prakash.

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  1. These are really helpful. Thanks

    Liked by 1 person

    1. GS says:

      Most welcome. Glad you liked them.


  2. cheriewhite says:

    Awesome post! Years ago, I read Dale Carnegie’s book, “How to win Friends and Influence People” and I read it right before I moved to a new high school during my senior year. When I began to put his teachings into practice, I was surprised at how well they worked! I went from being horribly bullied at my old school, to be well-loved at my new school!

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    1. GS says:

      May be things that you you get…you have them…so you don’t value them that..so they seems easy to get.
      And the things that you don’t have….you want to have them…because you somehow believe that getting that thing will increase your selfworth or will make you more happy than the you are now…
      Everything that you have..and seems so easy…is also a result of hardwork…not always your hardwork..may be…but of your parents…or people who have come before you…or labour… Etc etc
      Remember… Happiness because of acquiring things is like…..pleasure you get is temporary and you will aways ask for more after some time.

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    1. GS says:

      Thank you!!! 😀

      Liked by 1 person

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