It is my intention to be authentic and peaceful with all of my relatives
Somehow we allow the expectations and demands of our family members to be the source of Social much happiness and stress, when what we want is to be authentically ourselves and at peace with our relatives. The conflict seems too often to be choice between being authentic, which means no peace with certain relatives, or having peace at the price of being inauthentic. Making the connection to the power of intention in regard to being around your relatives may sound like an oxymoron to you, but it isn’t. Being peaceful and authentic can define your relationship with your relatives. First, though you may have to assess your relationship with the closest relative of all, you. How others treat you, you’ll discover, has a lot to do with how you treat yourself and thereby teach others to treat you.
Reference : The Power of Intention. Dr. Wayne W. Dyer.