You are in the same place millions of people have been before you. Throughout history. Some of them accepted it and some didn’t. Some got lucky and were born with resources and others were forced to work and never got resources. Ultimately you have to decide for yourself how you are going to carve out your identity. 

• The few things that parents going right. When things go wrong, take a moment to be thankful for all the other things that are still going right. And if you’re struggling to be thankful for what you have, be thankful for what you have escaped. Sometimes the best gifts are the troubles you don’t have.
• Trying to label everyone and everything. Sometimes you’ve just got to take people and situations for what they are, appreciate them, and not try to label them or change them.
• Worrying about what everyone else thinks. The minute you stop overwhelming your mind with caring about what everyone else thinks, and start doing what you feel in your heart is right, is the minute you will finally feel freedom.
• Wasting time on the wrong people. You cannot make someone respect you; all you can do is be someone who can be respected. No matter how much you care some people just’s won’t care back. At some point you have to really the truth – that they no longer care or never did, and that maybe you’re wasting your time and missing out on someone else who does.
• Old wounds and grudges. You will never find peace until you learn to finally let go of the hatred and hurt that lives in your heart. In order to move on, you must know why you felt the way you did, and why you no longer need to feel that way. It’s about accepting the past, letting it be, and pushing your spirit forward with good intentions.
• Superficial judgements – Every human being is beautiful; it just takes the right set of eyes to see it.
• Letting small disagreements snowball out of control. Don’t let a single poisonous moment of misunderstanding makes you forgot about the countless movable moments you’ve spent together.
• Showing a lack f self respect. Decide this minute to never again been anyone for the love, respect and attention that you should be showing yourself. Choose to be your best friend.