Navigating the maze of unappreciated devotion.
Even if someone likes or even loves you, their love will never be enough if they do not value you. Being valued is the only way to fully experience love, because just enjoying something or someone does not guarantee that you would care for, protect, or sustain them. It is possible to love something and disregard it, or to love someone yet mistreat them.
You usually take care of the things and people you care about since those are the ones you actually fear losing. I’ve realised that even if someone loves you, they may not always appreciate your impact on their lives. This suggests that you may be liked but not appreciated by others.
To form lasting alliances, healthy relationships, and solid friendships, you must surround yourself with people who value you rather than just adore you. It is critical to have people around you who appreciate your worth and the contributions you can make, as well as those who respect your presence and time. Many people may love you but not treat you with the highest respect — they may not listen to you, take you seriously, or recognise your limits.
Individuals that value you will not dismiss your message or place their wants ahead of yours. They will not leave you wondering if you are appreciated or what you mean to them. When you need them, they will not let you down or mistreat you in public. Those that appreciate you are always one step ahead, and you can tell when they value you by their actions and comments. You will feel secure even when you are not present because when you are acknowledged, you will always feel heard, noticed, significant, and on their mind. They will constantly allocate time for you.
People have so much more to contribute when they are sincerely terrified of losing something. However, many individuals maintain people in their life merely because they love them, although knowing deep down that they are not respected or treated as desired; the investment is not the same as in things they actually value. If you are terrified of losing something important to you, you will be better at safeguarding and hanging on to it.
Finally, these are the people you require in your life, therefore you must sometimes ask yourself if those around you actually cherish and appreciate you, if they acknowledge and respect your presence in their lives. You can rely on these people to be there for you no matter what. Who will be left behind after everyone else leaves? These are your genuine friends.
Take care. I’m always here for you.
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Be Inspired..!! 
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