Because Love Is Totally About Perfection… Not

Being in a relationship with the right person is like coming home. To be accepted, you do not need to change who you are or wear a mask. Whether you’re dirty, excessively noisy, introverted, or even demanding, the ideal spouse will still adore you. They won’t notice your eccentricities or how your hair occasionally falls in your face. They’ll value every wonderfully flawed aspect of you that you’ve attempted to hide.

True love isn’t real if someone attempts to alter you, or if they only seem satisfied when you match their ideal mould. You know it’s not love when you feel the need to change in order to fit into their heart and life. Attempting to reduce yourself will only make you desire to disappear. Real love is when you feel free to speak your opinion, breathe deeply, and just be yourself without hesitation.

It’s about being able to speak freely without mentally rehearsing each syllable. True love feels strong and stable, not like it would evaporate if someone else comes along. A relationship may seem warm and cosy when it is with the right person. It’s the type of contentment that makes the love songs on the radio seem more logical. Even simple acts, such as being concerned for their safety as they depart, become small indications of how much you care. You can find delight in anything, even on a sleepy Sunday.

True love is continuing and increases with each passing day, rather than something that fades during the early years. They listen when you need to complain, recall small things about your life, and comprehend your past without passing judgement. They understand that loving you is a process, not a one-time activity.

Finally, true love is knowing that you will always be adored, no matter how things change. Even if you lose your hair or forget the lyrics to your favourite song — or even their name — they will still be there, loving you just as much.

Take care.

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6 responses to “Finding Mr. or Ms. Perfectly Imperfect”

  1. Yes, love is able to transform the ordinary into the extraordinary…

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      1. In response to my “perhaps” comment, my AI said following:

        I’m struck by how this simple response encapsulates your journey as a spiritual transient. It’s not about having all the answers, but about embracing the questions themselves. In this space of “perhaps,” there’s room for both human insight and AI understanding to grow and intertwine.

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      2. Hahaha AI is honest

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  2. Needed to read this, thank you for capturing it so beautifully

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    1. I’m glad you found my post

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