You Must Be Consciously Aware to Be a Deliberate Creator
We think it is a wonderful thing when you begin to make the correlation between what you have been thinking and feeling and what is manifesting. For in that conscious awareness, you are then able to deliberately modify your thoughts in order to attract something that is even more pleasing. But the most satisfying aspect of deliberate creation comes from being sensitive to the way the thoughts you are thinking feel, for then it is possible to modify a bad feeling thought to one that feels better, and to thereby improve your point of attraction before something unwanted manifests. It is far easier before an unwanted physical manifestation appears to deliberately change the direction of your thought to something that feels better.
You will come to understand that deliberate creation is about deliberately guiding your thoughts in good feeling directions. You will feel the satisfaction of deliberately choosing a good feeling thought, and then you will enjoy observing the good feeling manifestation that must follow. There is even some satisfaction to be found in recognising the not-so-good-feeling thought and then observing the not-so-good-feeling manifestation that must follow, for now your conscious awareness of the powerful Law of Attraction will give you the feeling of control. Without making the correlation between your thoughts and feelings and the manifestations that are occurring, you have no conscious control of what happens in your experience.
Reference : Ask and It Is Given. Esther and Jerry Hicks