Positivity is a state of mind. It’s a mental attitude that helps to steer your mind towards actions that are conducive to self belief and confidence. When you have a strong mental attitude and a positive mindset you anticipate and look forward to fulfilment and happiness.
So how to stay positive if you fail :
- Control Self Doubt – From Self-doubt comes negative thinking that unseen and negative influence which leads you to out things off; sometimes things that really matter. We normally know when this has happened but by then it’s too late. The damage is done, the opportunity you should have seized has gone. Have the discipline to stop negative thinking.
- Be Aware of Your Thoughts – Positive and negative thinking are contagious. A negative attitude can show itself in your body language. This tends to happen on a subconscious level but can still have a significant impact on others. For example, socially, people don’t tend to want to be around negative thinkers because they find them depressing; they find positive people more exciting and interesting. So, negative thinking can have an impact on your friendships and your social life too.
- Stop Negative Language – You might not think it but what you say does have an impact on how positive (or negative) you actually feel. Confident people speak positive language. This helps them to stay positive in their mental attitude. For example, saying sorry when an apology isn’t appropriate sends negative signals to your mind. It also communicates a submissive message to the other people. If taken to an extreme it can also lead to feelings of insecurity and inferiority.
- Control Worrying – Controlling the effect that worrying has on your mental attitude is a vital component of maintaining a positive mindset. The simple way to do this is to have the self discipline to keep your worries in proportion. Natural worries always have to have something to worry about. If there’s nothing major to worry about in their life at that time, they’ll worry about something small.