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In today’s post we will discuss about simple dating tips for both men and women. Men and women can improve their love lives with straightforward changes in habits and conversation techniques. Such growth can be achieved without sleazy pickup routines, without objectifying other people, and without any of the bloodletting of the so-called pickup-artist industry. Let’s see how we can achieve this :
- Invest in Yourself First – Attraction cannot happen without first investment. We tend to place value in the people, places, and things we spend time on. The goal is to insure that the person of interest is thoroughly engaged in the dialogue. The best way to garner his or her full investment is to first invest yourself.
- Reciprocated Investment – Of course there’s more to romance than simply making sure you’re both talking enough. You need to establish rapport. Uncovering shared interests and values can achieve mutual comfort. Your commonalities give you conversation topics, and you’ll become relaxed in each other’s company.
- Comfort – Failing to establish comfort with your love interest is like trying to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich without the bread. It can’t be done. Comfort helps you earn trust. That trust comes in handy when you amp up the tension later. Your potential lover won’t stick around when things get tense unless they already enjoy talking with you.
- Tension – Sexual tension is absolutely necessary for healthy romance. Intensity can be built in a number of ways, including simple actions like sustained eye contact and appropriate physical contact at opportune times. All things in good time. Enjoy the journey instead of rushing to a destination.
With vulnerability, maintaining healthy boundaries is essential. Here’s a post which deep dives into thee concept on healthy and unhealthy boundaries > https://empress2inspire.blog/2021/01/20/unhealthy-vs-healthy-boundaries/
Healthy romance typically has equal balance from all four components. This system is based on simplicity. Understanding these concepts will help romance form naturally. Hope this helps. Come back tomorrow for more inspiration.