Changing your mind is changing your relationships
Being authentic and peaceful with you relatives is only a thought away. You can learn to change your thoughts by intending to create authentic and peaceful feelings within yourself. No one is capable of making you upset without you consent, and you have given your consent too frequently in the past. When you begin practising the intention to be authentic and peaceful, you withdraw your consent to be in the lower energy. You connect to peace itself, and decide to bring peace to your relatives, thereby immediately gaining the power to change the energy of family gatherings.
Think of the relatives whom you’ve blamed for your feelings of anxiety, annoyance, or depression. You’ve focused on what you disliked about them or how they treated you, and your relationship has always had an uncomfortable edge to it. Now imagine yourself doing this from a new point of view : Rather than reacting to their low energy of hostility or bragging with a hostile or bragging reaction of your own, lowering the energy field for everyone involved – you instead bring your intention of peace to the interaction.
Reference : The Power of Intention. Dr. Wayne W. Dyer.
Beautiful post
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Thank you Rajani.
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You have a good understanding of what you write. And your approach is problems to solution. Your each word gives me a sense of positivity. You made my day.🙂
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Glad you liked the post Lokesh.
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Great words. 🌹🙏
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Glad you agree Amber.
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This is a situation I am faced with currently and it’s looks like it’s will exist till the death of me.
I have let go of what was said and done that led to the disgruntlement , however, the situation doesn’t seem to ease or energies don’t wanna come down- they’re always hostile
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Conflict is not a bad thing in relationships. After watching thousands of couples in his lab for over 40 years, Dr. Gottman discovered a simple truth: all couples argue. The difference between the couples that stay together and the ones who divorce is the way they repair after conflict. The Masters of relationships take responsibility for their role in the issue and change their own behavior.
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Very true.
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Glad you agree.
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Beautiful post❤️
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Glad you liked the post. The right mindset changes everything because it changes how you look at things. When you change how you look at things, it changes how you feel. When you change how you feel, you change how you think. And vice-versa.
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Appreciate your efforts to spread the message of the ways to enrich the experience of life. Happy Sunday dear friend
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Thank you Metalifementor for such kind words. Little words of inspiration go a long way for a blogger like me.
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Thank you for sharing
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Always a joy and pleasure to read and share your posts with followers, My Dear! Have a great day!! xoxox 😘💕🎁🌹
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