Review all the obstacles that have been erected on your path to familiar peace
Listen to any inner dialogue that focuses on your resentment of others expectations for you. Remind yourself that when you think about what you resent, you act upon what you think about, while simultaneously attracting more of it to you. Examine your energy level for your tendency to react to lower energies with more of the same, and give your ego a reminder that you’ll no longer opt to be offended, or need to be right in these relationships.
Act as if
Begin the process of acting as if what you intend to manifest is already true. See everyone in your family in the love and light that is there true identity. When someone asked Baba Muktananda, a great saint in India, “Baba, what do you see when you look at me?” Baba said, “I see the light in you.” The person replied, “How can that be, Baba? I am an angry person. I am terrible. You must see all that.” Bala said, “No, I see light.”. So, see the light in those others, and treat them as if that is all you see.
Reference : The Power of Intention. Dr. Wayne W. Dyer.