Achieving Inner Peace Without the Need for a Cheer Squad

The Only Validation I Need is My Own: Embracing Inner Peace in Work and Personal Growth

In a society where likes, comments, and shares are frequently seen as the gold standard of self-worth, it’s easy to become caught up in the pursuit of validation from others. But let’s halt right there and remind ourselves of a critical truth: the only affirmation I require is my own. Seriously, all that counts is that I’m happy with what I’m doing at work and in terms of personal development. Let’s look at why following your instincts and developing your own inner calm is the true game changer, just like a perfectly timed score in the last minutes of the fourth quarter.

Consider the following scenario: You’re at work, and you’ve just finished a project you put your heart and soul into. You know you nailed it, yet there you are, checking your inbox, waiting for that congratulatory email or pat on the back from your boss that may or may not arrive. Here’s the kicker: if you’re pleased with your accomplishments, that’s already a touchdown. You don’t need the office quarterback’s permission to know you’ve thrown a 60-yard pass. When you can look at your work and be proud, that’s your inner ‘I just won the game’ dance right there. Remember, you are the one who determines the requirements for your success narrative.

Now, let’s discuss personal development. It’s similar to growing a garden — others may only see dirt for a time, but you know what’s beneath the surface. Whether you’re learning a new skill, finally taking up that instrument, or devoting more time to self-care, your route to progress is unique. Nobody understands how far you’ve come better than you do. Perhaps you read a chapter of that book you’ve been meaning to finish today, or you went to yoga and didn’t fall over in tree position. That’s progress, my buddies! Growth isn’t necessarily accompanied by pyrotechnics; it can also include quiet, personal celebrations.

Enjoying inner validation does not imply ignoring outward praises or criticism. It’s just recognising that you are greater than the sum of other people’s opinions. Your affirmation is like your favourite cosy chair — it’s always there and perfectly suited to you. Sure, it’s good when others recognise your accomplishments, but your inner approval should be the goalpost you strive for, not simply the interim milestones that appear along the route.

Self-reflection can help you develop this mentality as second nature. Take a few moments each day to reflect on your accomplishments and the actions you’ve done towards your goals. Give yourself a slap on the back, or a high five — literally or figuratively. Being your own cheerleader is not corny; rather, it is powerful!

Finally, remember the adage “dance like nobody’s watching” and live your life with the confidence that comes from inner calm and self-validation. In the end, the most essential relationship you have is with yourself. If you’re content with your career and personal development, you’re already ahead of the game — a game all about self-discovery and satisfaction.

So here’s to making validation an internal task and giving yourself credit where it’s deserved. Because, when all is said and done, being satisfied with where you are and where you’re going is the finest sort of victory.

Take care.

It’s Okay To Think About Yourself. Because you were put on this earth for your own humanly experience

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