Your presence allows others to feel better about themselves
Have you veer noticed when you’re in the presence of certain people that you feel better about yourself? Their compassionate energy has the noticeably pleasant impact of simply making your feel really good about yourself. You’ll impact others with this energy of compassion as you develop your connection to intention. People will sense that you care about them, understand them, and are interested in them as unique individuals. With this kind of connection to intention, you’re less likely to focus conversation on yourself and use others to massage your ego.
On the contrary, being in the company of someone who’s disdainful or indifferent impacts you quite differently. If this is the low energy you transmit to others, they’re quite likely to depart the encounter feeling less than wonderful about themselves, unless they’re so strongly connected to intention that they can override the impact of this low energy. These extremely low energy thoughts and behaviours are evident if you use every topic that’s brought up as an excuse to talk about yourself. Any behaviour similar to this displays who dominated energy that impacts others unpleasantly. Moreover, it leaves others feeling as if they’re insignificant or unimportant, and obviously feeling worse about themselves when it’s a repeated pattern in a significant relationship.
Reference : The Power of Intention. Dr. Wayne W. Dyer