Say to yourself, I’ve taught all these people how to treat me as a result of my willingness to make their opinions of me more important than my own. You might want to follow this up by emphatically stating, And it’s my intention to teach them how I desire to be treated from now on! Taking responsibility for how your family members treat you helps you create the kind of relationship with all of your relatives that matched up with the universal mind of intention.
You may be asking yourself how you can possibly be responsible for teaching people how to treat you. The answer is, in large part, your willingness to not only put up with listening to those familiar pressures some of which are long term traditions running back countless generations but also with allowing yourself to disconnect from your divine Source and indulge in low energy emotions like humiliation, blame, despair, regret, anxiety, and even hatred. You and only you taught your kin how to treat you through your willingness to accept critical comments from that well meaning. but often interfering and bothersome, tribe.