Daily Dose for the Mind

Maturity comes with experience. One lesson of maturity is that we should not take our thoughts too seriously, and must learn to curb our ego and see the bigger picture. Being right isn’t nearly as important as being happy together. Instead of being the smartest person in the room, quick to critique others, be the warmhearted friend, bringing people together and sharing things. Be the sensitive neighbour, capable of feeling the suffering of others.

If I want to convince someone, I first listen attentively and try to understand them. Even if I am right, they won’t be convinced until they feel heard and respected. Many conflicts in our lives can be resolved if we put ourselves in the other person’s shoes. Try to look at things from her point of view. If you consider only your side, you are no different from a child. If you get angry while debating right and wrong, your enraged voice has just conceded defeat.

Excerpt From: Haemin Sunim. “The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down: How to Be Calm and Mindful in a Fast-Paced World”.

13 Comments Add yours

  1. Great compilation of lessons and insights!

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    1. GS says:

      Glad you liked the post

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  2. Well said…enraged voice surely is the first giveaway of a battle lost

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    1. GS says:

      Yes indeed

      Like

  3. Joweda says:

    Thanks much for this.

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    1. GS says:

      Most welcome. Glad you found thee post helpful.

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      1. Joweda says:

        I appreciate.

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  4. Kritika says:

    ‘Maturity comes with experience. One lesson of maturity is that we should not take our thoughts too seriously, and must learn to curb our ego and see the bigger picture.’
    These lines say everything. Wonderful post.

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    1. GS says:

      I agree when you say that we should not take every thought seriously. Thank you for reminding me this again today Kritika.

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      1. Kritika says:

        My pleasure 🙂 🙂

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    1. GS says:

      Thank you for the reblog.

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      1. Always a joy and pleasure to read and share your posts with followers, My Dear! Have a great day!! xoxox 😘💕🎁🌹

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