You’re Not Late, Just Fashionably Delayed!
Have you ever felt as if you were running a race you didn’t sign up for? As if everyone else got the memo on how to “adult” and you’re still unsure where to begin? You’re not alone. I’ve felt behind in practically every element of my life since I was born, including personal relationships, employment, and education. If there is a way to doubt myself, I have most likely done so.
People frequently tell me that feeling behind is an inherent part of the human experience. “No one really knows what they’re doing,” they boast, “and you’re exactly where you need to be.” But, if that’s true, why don’t I feel the same way?
I’ve asked myself this question a thousand times, and while I don’t have the right answer, I can tell you this: you are precisely where you should be. Yes, you’ve heard that a hundred times, but listen to me. There is a path in this world that is uniquely tailored to you. Your path may differ from his, her, or theirs, making you feel as if you’re falling behind. But this is occurring for a reason.
You are an exceptional human being with distinct characteristics and qualities. Every experience, every cry, every laugh, every failed or successful relationship, every commute to work, every text exchanged, every conversation had—all of these things contribute to who you are. And believe me, people admire you for it. You are significant, and the world is a better place because of you. I’m sure your loved ones will agree. Consider how you look at your loved ones: with passion, caring, and affection. Someone out there believes the same thing about you. And, spoiler alert: nobody is concerned about your journey. Everybody is preoccupied with their own problems.
Your path is yours; theirs is theirs. Comparing the two is like comparing the sun with the moon. They serve very distinct functions, but without them, we’d be lost (or just extremely cold).
I’ve had my own struggles with this thinking. People might repeat what I’ve just told you until they were blue in the face, but it only clicked for me when I realised these are facts. I found solace in accepting that my path is not the same as someone else’s and that what others say does not important. I took solace in the notion that my journey is my own, and where I am right now is fine. Every day, I discover something new about myself, and every day brings me closer to the person I am already. Every day is not flawless, but every day serves a purpose, big or small, and that is one of the most wonderful aspects of life.
If you’re having trouble believing in yourself and accepting that everything takes time, you’re not alone. Anything is possible given time and growth. Limiting yourself can only harm you.
Here are a few examples of how I achieved this mindset. One method is to repeat affirmations. Each morning, I jot down my daily affirmations in a designated diary. Every single day. Once you start writing them down every morning, your brain begins to believe them. Furthermore, it’s a good way to start the day. Growth occurs as a result of practice, and transformation follows. Finally, in order for any of this to work, you must believe in yourself. Don’t be concerned; it’s doable. It’s simple to do and takes only five minutes out of your 24-hour day. Simple enough. It improves you and your thinking in more ways than one, and given how little time it takes out of your day, I’d call it a win-win.
One of my favourite affirmations is: “I don’t chase.” I attract. Whatever is intended for me will find me.” If that doesn’t resonate with you and you can’t come up with your own, search for affirmations on Google or Pinterest. When you start reading other people’s affirmations, you can even come up with some of your own, tailored to your personal experiences and what you’re currently going through or want to work towards. Affirmations and manifesting have enormous power because they actively encourage you to believe in your power and attract only good into your life.
The basic idea is that you need to be your own best friend. The only person you’ll ever have is yourself, thus it’s well worth the time and effort to modify your self-talk and perspective on yourself. You are exactly where you should be. The better friends you make with yourself along the journey, the more positive you will see in your lives.
Finally, always enjoy every feeling you experience. Each feeling, whether good, unpleasant, or in-between, is directing you to the person and place you were intended to be. Trust your journey; it is the right one. Appreciate the tiny things. Love the rain as much as you love the sun. And remember that everything happens for a purpose.
You’ll get there. You have time. You are exactly where you need to be.
Be Inspired..!! 
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