You are not alone, I want you to know. With society setting the pace and everyone attempting to keep up, life can feel like a race. But what if I told you that slowing down is acceptable? You’re not going behind at all, because the route is just as important as the destination. Perhaps you’re evaluating yourself against others and feeling like you fall short. While you read through social media, you see your friends obtaining their ideal positions, getting engaged, purchasing homes, and having children. You feel as though you are still learning everything and that you are in a rut.

Nevertheless, what if I told you that each person’s experience is unique? that some individuals choose a straight path while others choose one that is winding? that some individuals achieve milestones sooner while others do so later? that everyone moves at their own pace and that it’s not a race? Maybe the pressure to succeed is making you feel overburdened. In order to achieve your goals, you put in a lot of work, push yourself to the limit, and put your physical and mental health at risk. You believe that if you don’t keep up with the competition, you’ll never succeed.

What if I told you, though, that success is about more than just accomplishments—also it’s about fulfilment? that your dreams don’t have to come at the expense of your health? that taking pauses, sleeping, and recharging is acceptable? that success is a combination of who you are and what you do? Perhaps you’re feeling disoriented and unclear of your goals or direction. Nothing appears to work out despite your attempts to take various routes and investigate new possibilities. You have the impression that you are walking aimlessly and without purpose.

But what if I told you that getting lost occasionally is okay? that sometimes the trip itself is the goal rather than the destination? that it’s acceptable to experiment, make errors, learn, and develop? that finding your way is a lifelong process rather than an event? I want to let anyone who feels like they are lagging behind know that they are not the only one. You are not falling short, lost, or falling behind. You are travelling on your own particular path and are exactly where you should be. You are sufficient in that you are strong and capable. Taking one step at a time, you will arrive at your destination.

Hi, I’m Garima and I write about life experiences. I have several books available on Amazon. Check them out today! Any purchases or KDP reads will be greatly appreciated. If you like my books, do leave a review. Here’s my author page on Amazon – https://www.amazon.com/-/e/B0BQDZXYNV

20 responses to “You Are Not Alone”

  1. Love your post. I agree, never rush in life, and don’t compare yourself to others, your life is unique.
    Very informative posts. Thanks for sharing.

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    1. Absolutely. When we’re rushing, we are living in a state of resistance. Rushing produces a state of consciousness that often comes about when we’re feeling anxious. It’s a lack of willingness to be in the present moment.

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    2. I really needed to read your writings today. My heart breaks for all the inhumanity that is rearing its ugly face, and the articles you wrote previously were heartfelt. Thank you.

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      1. Glad you found my posts. God bless!

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  2. Thanks for supporting me GS, I also support you bro

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  3. Love the calming perspective Garima- awesome!!!
    Allow me to share my write from the day that may be relatable to some… https://ruparaoruminates.wordpress.com/2023/03/20/letter-to-self/

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  4. Thanks Garima! this was something that I really needed to hear.

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    1. Glad you found my post. Thank you for taking time to read it.

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  5. Indeed, we’re not alone in that we take different paths and have different journeys through life. Yes, it’s okay that our paths are different. For God created us uniquely and we each have Free Will. Yet, what is most important is that we come to realize the true destiny and purpose of our lives is to live for Jesus Christ and to take the path the He sets for us. That Jesus Christ is our guide and companion and that He goes on the journey with us so that we don’t go astray.

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    1. 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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  6. This is such a wonderful post, Garima. As someone who has taken a winding path in life, these words provide such comfort ❤️

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    1. You are not alone, Laura. You are divinely protected.

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  7. I always strive to be content with what I have. You will be surprised by how big a burden it lifts.

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    1. When we live life one day at a time, rather than with one foot 5 steps ahead & the other 10 years back, we live from a place of authenticity, centred in our heart. What you’re feeling & doing right now will lead you in the right direction. Allow yourself to be guided by intuition.

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  8. Nicely done

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  9. Excellent insight. Kudos! ReChanneling.org.

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    1. Thank you Robert.

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