You were not born into your physical body holding the memory of lists of right and wrong because those lists do not exist, but you were born with an effective Guidance System. The emotions that you feel, without exception, are indicators of the Vibrational Alignment or variance between the thought your human brain is focused upon and the perspective of your Broader Non-Physical Perspective regarding the same subject.
Since the Source within you is Eternally expanding, your understanding, perspective, intentions, and the knowledge of that part of you is Eternally expanding as well. That is the reason there cannot be a static list of right and wrong or good or evil for you to measure your experience against. Instead, you have personal, individual, loving, accurate feedback, thought by thought, moment by moment, to help you know when you are in alignment with that Broader Perspective or when you are not. There is not only one guidance list handed down from Source for all, but individual Guidance for all Physical Beings, in all points in time and space, and regarding all situations.
If, in your desire to socialise the new arrivals into your society, you are unaware of your own Guidance System, and therefore unaware of theirs, then you embark upon the impossible task of determining which actions are thee right actions. You also have the even more impossible task of enforcing those decisions. The reason why so many people feel a need to control the behaviour of others is because they believe that others have the power to assert themselves into their experience. When you remember that nothing can come into your experience without your Vibrational invitation of it, then you do the simple work of paying attention to your own Vibrational offering, and you save yourself the enormous and impossible task of controlling the behaviour of others. When you remember that the varied behaviour of others adds to the balance and the well-being of your planet even if they offer behaviour that you do not approve of, and that you do not have to participate in the unwanted behaviour, and will not, unless you give your attention to it – you become more willing to allow others to live as they choose.
The need to control others always stems from a basic misunderstanding of the Laws of the Universe and of the role that you have intended to play with others with whom you share your planet.
Reference : The Vortex. Esther and Jerry Hicks.