Emotionally Intelligent

Here are 10 behaviours that will add a little more meaning to your life and help you succeed in your interests, relationships, and health:

Accept full accountability for your actions. Own who you are and the decisions you make. When we play the victim and abdicate responsibility for our life, we are the only ones left to bear the consequences. So, take responsibility for your life before it is taken from you by time.

Set the key people and things in your life as priorities. Choose to spend as much time as you can doing the activities that light you up and spending it with the people that raise you up too since how you spend your time will greatly influence who you become.

Practise self-control. Even though we are not robots, practising discipline in the areas of your life that are important to you will have a positive impact on all of them. Making even a tiny daily progress towards your objectives may have a huge impact.

Everyday perfect your craft. By engaging in something daily, you not only maintain your enthusiasm for it but also have the chance to improve. You can choose to use your chosen craft as your reason for being in this world after you are proficient at it. The real magic in your life comes at this time.

Develop your sense of self. Develop your capacity for self-awareness by paying attention to those around you as well as to yourself. Be conscious of how you present yourself to others and to yourself every day.

React to circumstances, not to them. Without a doubt, you will have to react or respond to the life’s unavoidable ups and downs. Responding is a deliberate decision to be aware of your emotions and how they might intrude into your life. Reacting is a habitual response to a circumstance. When something doesn’t go your way, make the decision to react thoughtfully.

Appreciate personal time. Because of the uneasiness we experience when we are completely alone, we want to avoid it. Instead, don’t be scared to stay with that emotion; let it simmer before you realise why you’re feeling the way you are. Only when we give ourselves permission to be silent can we fully listen to ourselves.

Do what you say you’re going to do. It’s simple to come up with an explanation, but difficult to just get the job done. But if you persist, eventually it will begin to shape your identity and weave itself into the fabric of who you are. It will become second nature.

Make your feelings known to others. Understanding how to interact with others is one of the most crucial life skills you can have, according to emotionally intelligent individuals. Being courageous enough to express how you genuinely feel about yourself, about your relationships, and about everything else in your life is more crucial.

Donate more. The world constantly reflects back to you what you put out into it. Never undervalue the impact of a simple act of kindness… The distinction might alter both of your lives.

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  1. Thanks for sharing this idea. Can you follow my blog. Anita

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    1. GS says:

      Hi Anita, I am unable to find the follow button on your blog.

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      2. GS says:

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      3. Can you follow my blog. Let me know.

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      4. GS says:

        So the page keeps on refreshing and showing more of your blogs. I am unable to reach the bottom of the page for the follow.

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  2. sicetnon3 says:

    “Responding is a deliberate decision to be aware of your emotions and how they might intrude into your life. Reacting is a habitual response to a circumstance.” My perspective is that we first react (have a thought/feeling) to a circumstance and that is followed by a response such as a facial expression, words, body language, or some other “in world” action. Inner reaction thus precedes the external response. However, that is only my perception of things. Other people may certainly have other perceptions/perspectives.

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    1. GS says:

      Interesting perspective

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      1. sicetnon3 says:

        It seems that some people are “bound” to their inner reaction and justify their actions as being “honest” or “true” to themselves. Not being bound by one’s inner reaction, one is free of the conditioned mind and merely observes the response which is Life itself. Perhaps…

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      2. GS says:

        Difficult feat to achieve though

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  3. Thanks for sharing this idea above.

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    1. GS says:

      Thank you 🙏🏼

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  4. Varahan says:

    Very simple to lead a happy life. Feel u r innocent. Dont argue. Smile. Makes u healthier. Attracts many. Tension is normal. As time passes it dies. B courteous. Makes u human. B bold in decision making. Simple living.makes u debt free. Walk. Not only exercise. Makes neighbour friendly. Love. Assure other party loves u. If not dont pressurise. So many longing for true love. Sex is not love. But it plays well in uniting. But no free sex.
    Love u my dr

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    1. GS says:

      You have raised some good points

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      1. Varahan says:

        Good night. I disturbed u. Take rest and take care. My influence on u may b less.

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      2. GS says:

        Your words hold power. Your words come from a life lived well.

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