Often when people speak of finding their Soul Mate, they infer that there is one specific person that they are meant to be with a sort alliance that they formed before they came forth into this physical body in this time space reality. And while it is true that you do have intentions to rendezvous with others for the purpose of specific co-creating and rediscovering those relationships can be tremendously satisfying, you were not looking to this physical rendezvous as the source of your alignment. Instead, you intended to accomplish a consistent alignment first, understanding that then you could attract those relationship into your life.
You could be in the presence of a person with whom you had a Non-Physical alliance, and if you were disconnected from your Source, you would not recognise the relationship. Often the people with whom you feel the greatest annoyance or disharmony are actually your Soul Mates, but, in your lack of alignment with who you really are, you do not recognise them.
The best way to approach the diet of a Soul Mater is to seek alignment with the pure, positive Vibration of the Soul, or Source, within you; and then, by the allowing of that alignment, you will recognise every opportunity for these wonderful rendezvous, juts as you have intended. The simple intention to find things to appreciate would put you in continual alignment with your source and in the perfect position to attract your Soul Mates on myriad subjects.
Remember that even though you are new to this physical body, you are actually a very old Being who has experienced a tremendous number of life experiences, and through the living of all of that life, you have come to powerful conclusions. Your inner being now stands in the knowledge of all of those conclusions, and through the alignment with your Inner Being, you, too, have access to that knowledge and anything less than that is out of balance and will not feel good to you.
Reference : The Vortex. Esther and Jerry Hicks.