Things You Must Recognize As You Age

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Which ones do you often forget?

Most of us have the realisation that time is passing at some point in our lives. Several significant lessons and realities become apparent to us as we become older. We can negotiate the opportunities and challenges that come with ageing and live a satisfying and meaningful life by being aware of these fundamental ideas. Five things to know as you age are listed below:

  1. Life is unpredictable and often unfair. – “Life doesn’t owe us anything. We only owe ourselves, to make the most of the life we are living, of the time we have left, and to live in gratitude .”— Bronnie Ware. One of the hardest lessons to learn as we age is that life is often unpredictable and unfair. Despite our best efforts and intentions, we may encounter challenges and hardships that are beyond our control. Understanding this can help us be more resilient in the face of adversity and find meaning in the struggles we face.
  2. Time is finite and valuable – Don’t waste your time living someone else’s life since you only have so much time. Avoid falling into the trap of dogma, which means accepting the conclusions of other people’s reasoning. Steve Jobs. The knowledge that time is a valuable and finite resource is another important insight we gain as we age. This can motivate us to live more intentionally and completely appreciate each day. It can also inspire us to put our relationships, experiences, and passions first so that we don’t waste time on activities that don’t fulfil us.
  3. The most valuable component of life is relationships – “Choose those who uplift you.” Obama, Michelle. Through time, we also learn that the most meaningful and significant component of our existence is the interactions we have with other people. This encompasses the ties we have with our loved ones, close friends, romantic partners, and the larger community. We may build a strong network of love and support by putting effort into and taking care of these relationships, which will sustain us for the rest of our lives.
  4. Life is a voyage of self-discovery and personal development. The day you are born and the day you learn why are the two most significant days in your life. — Mark Twain. As we age, we also begin to appreciate that life is a path of personal growth and self-discovery. You’ll be able to keep your sanity when things get difficult around you if you’re obsessed with improving yourself. Exploring our strengths, values, and hobbies as well as taking lessons from our failures and mistakes all contribute to being a better person. By accepting this road of self-discovery, we can improve our self-assurance, resiliency, and self-awareness, as well as build a meaningful and rewarding existence.
  5. Well-being is riches – Real wealth, as opposed to gold and silver coins, is health. Muhammad Ali Gandhi. Finally, as we get older, we frequently realise how important it is to look after our health. Making healthy decisions, such as eating well, exercising frequently, and getting enough sleep, as well as seeking medical attention when required, are all part of this. We can make sure that we have the energy and vitality to enjoy our life and pursue our passions by establishing good habits and caring for our physical, mental, and spiritual health. In conclusion, whether it’s embracing the unpredictability of life, appreciating our relationships, or investing in our health, these lessons can help us make the most of our time on this earth and find joy and purpose in each day.

Hi, I’m Garima and I write about life experiences. I have several books available on Amazon. Check them out today! Any purchases or KDP reads will be greatly appreciated. If you like my books, do leave a review. Here’s my author page on Amazon – https://www.amazon.com/-/e/B0BQDZXYNV

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18 Comments Add yours

  1. Food for thought indeed!

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  2. Rochdalestu says:

    Age is something that you can get insecurities from. You reach your 80s say and you see your friends of similar age passing away and you could be consumed by thinking that each day is potentially your last. You can argue that you being forgetful is just a sign that it’s not really that important. We can only I guess ask people who are of a certain age to document their own experiences. A group of people aged 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, 70, 80 & 90. See if you have any patterns that are presented. I wrote this about the notion of being content.

    https://livingthebipolardiary.wordpress.com/2023/02/27/imagine-if-we-were-all-content/

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    1. GS says:

      Loved your article. True contentment is a deep-seated sense of accepting who and where you are at any given moment. Too often, we get so entrenched in our busy lives that we don’t even notice where we are now. When we finally come up for air, we focus more on where we were or where we want to be instead of where we are now.

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      1. Rochdalestu says:

        Glad you enjoyed the article. Thank you. You are so right. I’m finding that the more works that I read from different individuals who are pointing out the obvious things that they see about society at the time, concurs with each other’s opinions. That the problems are ones that have been around for many, many years. It’s so so interesting and intriguing to learn about for me

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      2. GS says:

        Likewise. It’s interesting to understand different perspectives on similar topics.

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  3. This so resonates with me, Garima but then I am getting older. I hope all is well with you.🙂❤️❌

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    1. GS says:

      Getting by Carolyn. Thank you for asking.

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      1. Sometimes that is all we can do, Garima, get by. Your articles and affirmations are always so positive and uplifting. I will always be grateful to you for introducing me to affirmations and for being grateful. I hope life improves for you soon. Take care and stay safe. ❤️❌✍️

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      2. GS says:

        Thank you

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      3. You are very welcome, my dear Garima.❤️❌❤️✍️

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      4. GS says:

        Your message brought tears to my eyes 🥲

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  4. judeitakali says:

    Great pointers as usual, Garima.

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    1. judeitakali says:

      Really appreciate.

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      1. GS says:

        Anytime

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    2. GS says:

      Glad you liked them

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  5. Can relate so so well with your wise words,. God bless you for reaching us so well dear.. 🤗❤💕

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    1. GS says:

      Most welcome!

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