Be unapologetic as you navigate the universe.

For many years, I’ve been hoarding a book proposal. For so long, I’ve had the idea for it on the tip of my tongue, but until now I couldn’t quite put it into words. Being yourself or being authentic was the initial focus of the idea, but later on, I zeroed in on the central notion that has long baffled me. Now that this central concept has been expanded upon, these emails will serve as chapters in the book that I will be writing as I go. The best thing you can do to assist is to simply inform me of the concepts that you find compelling and those that you don’t. We’ll figure out a solution to this issue together in due time. Additionally, it seems like an issue worth solving based on the small experiments I’ve conducted on this topic.

What exactly is the issue? In a nutshell, I’d say it was repentant. Living without apology is the answer to the issue and the central topic I will stick to all year long and into the new year. In other words, you shouldn’t feel guilty or ashamed about living your life however you want as long as you’re not harming anyone. In order to please others, you shouldn’t turn down your brightness. Be bold and don’t be embarrassed to stand out. Having lofty goals shouldn’t make you feel terrible. Compare this to how most people survive. I occasionally notice it in myself, and I’m certain you do too. They seem to be constantly apologising for being alive through their behaviour.

If you have a gift to share with others, you are not bothering them. Many people struggle with placing themselves out there. To put yourself out there, you might launch a product, produce content, introduce yourself to a stranger, stand up in a meeting, or take the lead on a brand-new project. Because you suspect that you have nothing worthwhile to contribute, you are reluctant to put yourself out there. You believe that you would be disturbing others. If you did, putting yourself out there wouldn’t be an issue for you. Here’s an exercise in thought: Would you meekly approach someone to present them with a million dollar cheque and say: I’m sorry to bother you, but could I please ask if I could offer you a million dollars? No, you wouldn’t hesitate to approach them and present them with the gift because you wouldn’t question for a second that they would be interested in what you have to offer.

You have talents you can give to others. Gifts more priceless than cash include knowledge, guidance, camaraderie, a helping hand, and affection. However, you won’t be able to share those talents with others as long as you have this meek energy where you feel like a burden to the world for expressing yourself. Many writers who contact me express concern that they don’t have anything worthwhile to contribute. They believe no one will be interested in reading what they have to say.

They secretly believe that by expressing their views, they are bothering others in some way. This conceptual equation needs to be turned around. By keeping your talents a secret, you are harming other individuals. Being true to who you are and expressing that is not egotistical; not doing so is. There are many fascinating and interesting things about you and your life that would be of great value to others if you took the time to make a list of everything you’ve ever learned, everything you’ve been through, and all the little pearls of wisdom you picked up along the way. Let the cards land where they may as you begin to freely share them with others.

Stop Embarrassing Yourself for a Natural Human Desire

You’ve been taught to equate achievement with self-centeredness. For wanting a better existence, you are made to feel guilty. Talking about it is discouraging. Someone will eventually accuse you of being conceited, boastful, or on a high horse if you talk about your plans, objectives, and aspirations for a long enough period of time. Those are actual emotional tendencies that you should try to avoid, but don’t assume that having objectives equates to being selfish. Who the heck do you think you are, a quiet voice in society seems to be saying.

It’s that generalised self-consciousness that attempts to bring you down a few pegs whenever you consider making an effort to make things better. You’ve acquired all of these unfavourable connections that make you feel guilty for desiring particular results. You learn that greed and riches go hand in hand. You learn that narcissism and the quest of excellence are mutually exclusive. You are conditioned to think that in order to get what you want, you must deprive others. These stories are all fiction. Everyone engaged benefits when self-actualization is pursued in the appropriate manner.

Making goods that people voluntarily exchange money for allows you to build wealth. Without assisting others, you cannot succeed in any field. There is no need for you to boast, but you can set a good example for others. Do not let other people or the outside world guilt you into giving up your objectives. We question ourselves, “Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?” Marianne Williamson said it best: Who, in fact, are you not to be? You are God’s offspring. You serving the world by being a small-minded person. Shrinkage is not the way to go if you want others to feel comfortable around you. When you have an attitude of apology, you believe that by becoming smaller, you are helping others. You aren’t. So stop.

Hi, I’m Garima and I write about life experiences. I have several books available on Amazon. Check them out today! Any purchases or KDP reads will be greatly appreciated. If you like my books, do leave a review. Here’s my author page on Amazon – https://www.amazon.com/-/e/B0BQDZXYNV