Walk away, move on.

Realizing that the person you thought you know and loved isn’t the person they seemed to be might be difficult. When they play with your emotions and mind, it can be particularly challenging. But don’t be deceived; they are fully aware of what they are doing and why. Even though it’s normal to feel hurt and as like you’ve lost something, you must admit that nothing of value was lost. You lost a person whose suffering you didn’t need to endure. Furthermore, let me just say that the anguish is genuine. Believe me, it’s fine to be depressed and to mourn the relationship, but you must accept that this suffering won’t endure forever.

There is a legitimate reason for the anguish that is currently rushing through your chest and making you want to scream. It won’t always be this way, no matter how gloomy it seems. Your potential sense of being left out is the worst aspect of this predicament. They will actually lose out on finding someone who is willing to support them, though. Don’t ever lose sight of the reasons you initially walked away, even though they may make an attempt to reenter your life. Don’t be duped into believing they have changed by their manipulation. People don’t change very often. And even if they do, it doesn’t mean that their behaviour has altered sufficiently to merit another chance.

Being without that person in your life can make you feel incomplete, which is normal. But you have to understand that you are enough. You can be happy with yourself without the help of another person. By yourself, you are whole. Furthermore, you won’t be content in a relationship if you’re unhappy with yourself. The time to stretch yourself and walk away comes when enough is enough. Although it is sometimes difficult, it is necessary. You deserve to be in the company of someone who values and cares for you. A person who doesn’t try to mess with your feelings or make you feel bad about yourself. Someone who genuinely cares about you and your wellbeing should be with you.

You’re not alone. Similar problems have been encountered by many others. You will survive this, even though it may not seem like it right now. There will be someone out there that respects you and treats you well. Keep yourself healthy in the interim. Embrace a kind, encouraging community around you. Prioritize the things that bring you joy. Spend time doing something you enjoy or pick up a new pastime. Last but not least, avoid letting this experience define who you are. Much more than this particular connection, you are. Hurt is acceptable.

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