You’ve undoubtedly heard that you have an old soul if you’re reading this.
Even if that’s undoubtedly a praise, it does have its own problems, right? It’s okay that you’ve been feeling a little strange and out of place. Being an old soul in 2023 is difficult because you are one.
- Consistently feeling out of place – You know that feeling you get when everyone at a party is talking about the newest smartphone or the TikTok craze and you’re just standing there thinking about that incredible black-and-white movie you watched the night before? That, my friend, is the struggle of having an ancient soul. Although the world seems to be concerned with the next big thing, you like the classics, meaningful conversations, and peaceful periods, which might make you feel as though you don’t quite fit in. It’s difficult, but don’t be alarmed; I assure you that there are people who understand.
- The drama in relationships, oh the drama! – Let’s now discuss relationships. The kind of connection that transcends geography and time is what you long for as an old soul, you know? But it’s challenging to meet that special someone who knows your heart and soul in a society where swiping left or right is the norm. Additionally, it seems like nobody wants to commit when you’re dating. They’re all about getting what you want right away and having fleeting relationships, leaving you to worry if you’ll ever meet your true love. Keep trying; ultimately, love will find you.
- The Continuous Search for Meaning – You’re continuously looking for life’s meaning and purpose since you have an old soul. But let me tell you, it can be difficult to find that inner serenity in the fast-paced world of 2023. Everyone seems to be after success, money, and fame, and you sometimes feel like the only one who wants to change the world and leave a lasting impression. Even if it’s difficult, don’t let the noise stop you from moving forward. You’ll discover your mission if you keep moving forward, I guarantee it.
- Your Extreme Over-Sensitivity – The sensitivity and empathy that are attributed to old souls are a great quality, but they can also be a burden. It’s difficult to observe people in pain in today’s increasingly fractured world and remain unscathed by that pain. Furthermore, when you’re injured, it seems like the agony never really goes away, and you can’t help but wonder why others aren’t kinder and more forgiving. It’s a battle, but never forget that your sensitivity is a gift that can change the world, one person at a time.
- Being under pressure to “fit in” – The constant pressure to “fit in” and follow the norms of society is the last factor. However, you are aware of your uniqueness and accept it because you are an old soul. You don’t want to blend in with the herd, adopting the current fashions while losing yourself in the process. However, there are occasions when the need to fit in becomes too much, and you may experience a feeling of exclusion. Remember that being true to yourself is the most important thing, and no one can take it away from you.
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It seems like an old soul might be one who doesn’t fit in according to the majority of people or a person who feels they don’t fit in with the majority of people. In either case, they are defined by the judgments of others or by self judgement. “Old” is such a judgmental term. Regardless of what it is applied to, the word sets it in a “category”. The same can be said of the term “young”.
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Agreed. Old souls often focus on big-picture thinking rather than small details. You know you can’t change the world single-handedly, so you focus on making improvements where you can. Your desire to do good can make the more impermanent interests of life seem less important.
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From my perspective, if the picture is really big, thinking is no longer efficacious and may be a stumbling block. Maybe I am a really old soul!🤣
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I resonated to your beautiful, wonderful words.
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You are an old soul, Isha. I am sure you know deep in your heart. Stay blessed 🤍🤍
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Proudly so ❤️🌹🦋
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I think I was in grade school and my English teacher said that I was an old soul. I had no idea what it meant, I just automatically took it as a compliment. She was one of my favorite teachers throughout all of my early education. The way I wrote, and the depth in which I comprehended the books we read and discussed. She introduced me to The Pigman by Paul Zindel. It went on to become one of my most favorite books! Her calling me an old soul stuck with me and maybe I already was, but I believed her. Perhaps I internalized it and the perpetuated it through actions but every item in that list is me! 3 years ago through a series of events, I learned that I am an empath. Not an HSP. I didn’t even realize there was a difference. I like your post! It reminded me that I need to take better care of myself.
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I am glad you got inspired by this post. We all need to be reminded of our power every now and then. Thank you for sharing your personal experience with us, it’s so touching. Teachers can really make a difference in our lives. Stay blessed 🤍🤍
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Oh so lovely, and all of these I can relate to. Number 4 especially. However, the last one I’ve long since not cared about (fitting in) anymore. In today’s world-society, I think many people feel isolated, especially after the virus crisis.
Thank you for the very compassionate post.
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Glad you liked the post. Old soul 🤍
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I’m also and “old body” now. My last birthday hit me like a ton of bricks. 🧱😝 Having trouble accepting, but it is what it is.
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Lori, if I may, As you enter your later years, we want to encourage you to stay active and engaged in your communities. There are many ways to do this, from volunteering to mentoring to simply staying connected with friends and family.
Research shows that people who stay active and engaged in their later years tend to live longer, healthier lives. So don’t hesitate to get out there and make the most of your retirement years!
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Thank you for your thoughtful response, Garima. I don’t always have the means to do as suggested (too long to write). As today’s quote on my blog says, I do the best I can with what I have. But I’m still shocked I’m this age. It snuck up on me. 😜
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We all will reach there
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