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Call a friend the next time you’re stressed out or having a hard time.

I’ve been informed that as a Gemini, my strong sense of independence and difficulties asking for help are characteristics of my astrological sign. Despite this, I’ve recently tried to phone friends for emotional support because I think doing so is one of the best things you can do when you need it. Knowing that I am always there for my friends in their time of need, I wanted to put my words into action. I had a chance of having a breakdown, a breakthrough, a midlife crisis, or maybe going away and becoming like Tom Hanks in Cast Away during the past two very challenging years. However, I chose to phone a friend before I did anything serious. I made the finest choice possible because it gave me access to a number of advantages.

A phone call to a friend mostly offers social support. This is characterised as the support and direction we get from our social ties, and it is extremely important for our mental health and wellbeing. We are more likely to feel content and fulfilled and less prone to suffer negative emotions like sadness and loneliness when we feel connected to and supported by others.

A phone chat with a friend can also help you feel less stressed. Although stress is a natural part of life, prolonged stress can harm both our mental and physical health. Friends may provide support, guidance, and a listening ear, which can help reduce stress and enhance general mental health.

Additionally, talking on the phone with a friend can make you happier. According to research, persons who have robust social networks are more likely to feel joyful, in love with, and grateful. You can share your successes and happiness over the phone with a friend, and you can enjoy life’s pleasant things.

Additionally, conversing with a friend might enhance your communication abilities. Regular interactions with friends provide you the chance to practise listening to others and expressing your thoughts and feelings, both of which are crucial components of any relationship. This can be especially helpful if you have trouble expressing yourself or deal with social anxiety because it can boost your confidence and enhance your communication abilities.

And finally, talking on the phone with a friend might give you a feeling of direction and significance. We feel less isolated and more socially connected when we have someone to chat to. This can encourage us to keep pushing forward by allowing us to view our difficulties and obstacles in a new way.

It can be challenging to ask a friend for emotional assistance, but it is important. A phone contact with a friend can boost feelings of enjoyment, reduce stress, improve communication skills, and give one a sense of direction and significance.

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10 Comments Add yours

  1. Barbara S says:

    thanks for writing; for me to get clarity and perspective, it is mostly writing notes to myself and experimenting with systemic constellations –

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    1. GS says:

      Glad to know Barbara. Even research says this. Journaling helps control your symptoms and improve your mood by: Helping you prioritize problems, fears, and concerns. Tracking any symptoms day-to-day so that you can recognize triggers and learn ways to better control them. Providing an opportunity for positive self-talk and identifying negative thoughts and emotions.

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      1. Barbara S says:

        yes, thanks – not to say that the negative self talk cn’at be driving to distraction still 😉

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      2. GS says:

        Haha yes 🤍🤍

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  2. You write so well. I wish I can put in words, how I feel but I will put it this way, ‘I appreciate you’🤗.

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    1. GS says:

      🤍🤍🥹🥹
      Your message brought tears to my eyes. Stay blessed Girl. You deserve the best alway.
      Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
      Sending you positive energy through this message, hope it reached you 🤍🤍

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      1. I’m glad. You are always welcome ☺️

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      2. GS says:

        🙏🏼🙏🏼

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      3. I’m glad. You are always welcome ☺️. It reached me. Thank you so much.

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      4. GS says:

        ❤️❤️

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