Not Getting Back Is The New Normal


The best modern survival kit is not caring if others respond to you.

The best survival kit in the modern era, in my humble view, hasn’t been something you can take in a rucksack for camping. Yes, my family does reside in the woods, and we frequently require the usage of a generator, sometimes for as long as a week. It’s challenging to come up with something superior to that. But perhaps there is.I believe that not caring whether or not people email, text, or phone you back is the best survival tool we have today. When people opened their emails and saw they had not heard from a potential employer, there was despair on their faces. Friends are being informed at a party that their partners were likely too busy to respond to them within two hours. It is hardly a justification for leaving your phone on at night.

People were heartbroken because they had applied for a job but had not heard back, and they urgently needed the additional income. Even after their brother-in-law gave them the likelihood of hearing back, their spirits were not raised. Numbers were useless. They should have received the balloon show of joyful news in their email inbox, but it was empty. You don’t need to bother if your crush doesn’t respond to you on an online dating app. It’s a rookie error to do this. Your entire life cannot depend on one thing. There are many emotional beings in the world. I am aware that it is ineffective. Look, the world is currently populated with a lot of phonies. Helpful or not?

I recall it starting at a period when almost everyone had a cell phone for the first time in history and people began to be late and call folks to let them know. From there, everything went downhill. Ghosting, or never responding to anyone at all, is a problem that even reliable people still encounter. The only thing they can do at times to try to feel comfortable is to hurt someone else. This is not a benefit. You will succeed if you do not worry that your previous employer did not send you a letter of recommendation via email. Consult another person. Alternatively, simply refrain from submitting an application for graduate study. You will succeed if you can move on after your 10-year best friend dumps you while continuing to watch your two of your favourite films.

If you struggle with others not responding to you, you are probably not keeping yourself occupied enough. At least, that’s what the unreliable individuals may tell you when they claim to be too busy to respond to you. Take up a hobby, visit the gym, or launch a side business. Or, if you want to feel even more in control, avoid living a life that is ostensibly as busy as that of these flakes. You’ve grown numb to their absence, so you don’t need to divert your attention from it.

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5 Comments Add yours

  1. We need to be liberated from placing our happiness and well-being in the hands of others.

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    1. GS says:

      Yes take control into our own hands for our own life

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  2. I agree wholeheartedly and I need to apply this in my life because people ghosting me affects me deeply. I tried launching a side business but tbh I need a social life.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. GS says:

      Take it slow. Do whatever feels right to you at any given moment. You are going to be okay. Sending you loads of good vibes.

      Liked by 1 person

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