Not Just About Moving On, Forgiveness Is An Act Of Divine Will
We live our lives every day by walking and talking in accordance with our feelings, our thoughts, and most importantly our deeds. To some sense, we are in charge of our own destiny. People enter our lives occasionally so that we can start our future, and other times they leave so that we can finish it.Every day there is fresh birth, new darkness, new light, and new death. Unless a problem arises, we constantly think a thousand thoughts and are never able to concentrate fully on just one. The issue I raise has to do with forgiveness.
Humans have a tendency to forgive others based on three factors: the crime they have committed, other people’s thoughts on what this person has done to us, and most crucially, how it has affected how we feel about the other person. Someone cheating on you is an example of this transgression or a situation in which forgiveness might take place. When someone cheats, our feelings, other people’s perceptions, and our own ideas come first, followed by our anguish. When deciding whether or not to forgive this person, we consider these three criteria in addition to a few others. But there are some perspectives that we don’t consider in context.
One of these ideas is that life is fleeting. People may come into our lives to assist us, love us, or as I previously mentioned they could even hurt us badly. We are unable to foretell when something will happen to us or not. Sometimes, we may not even be aware that someone else is in charge of our life. Because they are aware that life is short, some people have a propensity to forgive other people. Others who have a propensity forgiving others may view this as a justification for forgiving as well as a justification to permanently cut this person out of their lives. Remember to always part on good terms when we decide to cut someone out of our lives since you never know what might or might not happen to them, for better or for worse.
Take other people’s ideas and opinions with a grain of salt. This is what I mean when I say that we should not be influenced by the opinions or actions of others and instead should decide for ourselves whether or not to forgive someone. While we can listen to what others have to say, we shouldn’t always take their advice to heart. When we confide in someone, they are not experiencing the same emotions as we are. We learn from experience in this way: through taking independent action and discovering coping mechanisms for difficult situations.
Last but not least, how much suffering do we experience as a result of this person’s wrongdoing? Are they harming us now for the first time? Is there never a good enough reason given for something? Do we believe they intended to harm us? These are the three key considerations we need to make while determining whether or not to forgive someone. We must realise that we shouldn’t let ourselves get into the habit of forgiving someone repeatedly. The reason for this is because the person you are forgiving will believe they can injure you again and you will continue to forgive them.
One day you will realise that you deserve respect, that you don’t deserve to be wounded any more, and that there isn’t enough love in the world to allow you to continue living with someone who regularly treats you with contempt and disregard for your feelings.
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