The experience of being single can certainly feel lonely at times. It’s difficult not to draw comparisons to friends who are already in committed relationships, settled down, and seemingly content. It’s natural to wonder if there’s something wrong with you, something that’s keeping you from finding love.

In response, you might find yourself creating a list of perceived shortcomings, a looong list of ways in which you feel like you don’t measure up: too loud, too much, too awkward, not pretty enough, not disciplined enough, not smart enough, and so on.

This often leads to a plan, a roadmap to fixing these perceived flaws, so that you can finally feel worthy of the love you desire.

But here’s the truth—none of that is necessary. Seriously. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Being single is simply a state of being, not a reflection of your worth as a person or your character.

Instead of embarking on these personal development projects to become a “better” version of yourself, it’s time to redirect your focus to healing and repairing your relationship with yourself. That’s the real work here. What you really need isn’t a romantic relationship, but a reconnection with who you truly are. Somewhere along the way, you’ve lost touch with yourself, losing your sense of self-worth and forgetting all the beautiful qualities and talents you possess.

This doesn’t mean you can’t or shouldn’t desire love and partnership. It’s more about taking this moment to put yourself back together before seeking a relationship. If you don’t, there’s a higher chance you’ll settle for less than you deserve.

Right now, your journey is all about rediscovering yourself. It’s about coming back home to yourself and reacquainting yourself with all the wonderful things that make you unique and special. It’s about proving to yourself just how strong and capable you are. Right now, the focus is on you, and you alone.

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6 responses to “Being Single”

  1. “Rediscovery” is a nice way to put it. 🙏🏼

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  2. I love how this post points out how it feels being single in a world where it seems like everyone in a committed relationship

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    1. Yesssss…spot on

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  3. “Reconnection”= “reconciliation”

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    1. Ah with inner self..beautiful

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